Exploding the Smoking
Myths
Who
or what is Nitch?
Nitch
stands for NICOTINE ITCH
and ITCH stands for
Irritating
Time
Consuming
Controlling
Horrible
|
Myth
1: Smoking Helps People Relax
Smoking helps
people relax. The ‘fact’ that cigarettes are relaxing
is ingrained so deeply in our culture and psyche that at first it
seems absurd to dispute this. But there is not one shred of factual
evidence that supports this belief.
On the contrary,
there is an ever-increasing body of evidence that shows that smoking
is stressful. And that does not just mean that the hardships you have
to deal with if you are a smoker, such as the expense and the damage
to health are stressful. It means that smoking itself is stressful.
Key Concept
Smoking
is stressful, not relaxing.
|
However I
am not suggesting for one moment that people don’t feel more
relaxed after a cigarette than before it. What I am saying is that
people experience cigarettes as relaxing when in fact they are stressful!
This is because
Nicotine withdrawal is stressful. A cigarette ends this withdrawal.
Key Concept
Cigarettes
appear to be relaxing as they remove the stress that they
created.
|
On the graph notice how the anxiety levels of the smoker rise, then
drop sharply when the person smokes. This makes smoking feel satisfying.
But notice that the anxiety levels for the smokers are higher all
the time than those for non-smokers.
Myth 2: People enjoy smoking
What do you enjoy about a cigarette? The taste? The sensation of the
smoke hitting the back of your throat? The deep breath in and the
steady stream of smoke you blow out? Beautifully crafted smoke rings?
The feel of it in your hand – feeling so right there?
Let’s start with taste. Can you remember your first cigarette?
That first experience of smoking is what a cigarette is really like.
Those early cigarettes represent what cigarettes truly taste like,
if you don’t have nicotine addiction as a complicating factor.
They taste disgusting. And cigarettes don’t change!
Key
Concept
Cigarettes
taste disgusting – you just learn to get used to it. |
Addicted smokers
‘develop a taste’ for cigarettes because over time they
come to associate smoking with relief. Cigarettes are not enjoyable
to smoke. All aspects of smoking are in themselves unpleasant. The
taste and smell are unpleasant. The sensation of smoke entering your
lungs is horrid. And the handling aspects are irrelevant. They only
seem pleasant or important because you have become conditioned to
associate these actions with relief.
Myth Number 3: Smoking ‘goes with’ Pleasure and Relaxation.
Cigarettes that people find most ‘pleasurable’ or enjoyable
are those they smoke when they are out socially, or when they are
relaxing. In these situations they are doing things that are themselves
genuinely pleasurable. They may be out with friends, or at a party,
or unwinding after work.
If you pair
something irrelevant with something nice over and over again, the
thing that you have paired with the pleasure becomes pleasurable in
itself. In the situation I have just described, all the things I was
doing were genuinely pleasurable and relaxing. The cigarette became
associated with these pleasures till it seemed as if it was the cigarette
itself that was the most important thing.
If you always
smoke in situations when you are relaxing, drinking, socialising or
unwinding, then the cigarette becomes associated with those pleasures,
and you feel that the cigarette is a crucial part of them. When you
first quit, these situations feel odd, as if there is something missing.
What the research has shown, however, is that if you break the link,
the conditioning fades. You will therefore find that you enjoy the
genuine pleasures of those situations as much as you ever did.
Myth 4: Smoking Makes Good Times Better
People don’t
enjoy things more if they can smoke – but they certainly enjoy
them less if they can’t ! This is not the same thing! If you
are smoking, Nitch will allow you to enjoy yourself. But he won't
add anything to it.
But when you can't smoke, or if it is difficult to smoke, Nitch will
make an awful fuss and prevent you from enjoying anything, or will
insist that you suffer significant inconvenience to feed him. Quitting
means not to have to think about Nitch, or worry about him or pander
to his endless demands!
Myth
5: Smoking helps Concentration
Nonsense! This is just another cost cunningly disguised as a benefit.
In the same way that cigarettes make you stressed while pretending
they are helping you feel less stressed, cigarettes destroy your ability
to concentrate while pretending to improve it. Needing a smoke is
an enormous distraction. Get rid of it (by smoking) and your normal
ability to concentrate is temporarily restored.
Myth
6: You can’t get over an Addiction
Addiction
is poorly understood and there are many misconceptions about addicts,
such as ‘once an addict always an addict’.
The central
feature of any addiction is so-called compulsive use. This means that
people will go to great lengths to obtain the substance, and that
they experience distress without it. The label addiction does not
explain why a person has compulsive use. It simply describes what
people do and feel.
This definition
of addiction fits smokers, who make great efforts to get cigarettes
and feel stressed, anxious or downright panicky without them. But
it is not an explanation of smoking. The questions you need to ask
yourself are Why do I have a compulsive need to smoke, Why will I
go to such ridiculous lengths to get a cigarette and Why am I so miserable
without my fags?
The answer
can again be found in our little villain, Nitch.
If you can
Ditch Nitch, you can be completely free from all desire to smoke –
which means being completely free from the addiction.